Lady Gaga Was a Lifeline to Doechii When She Was a Queer, “Weird” Little Monster

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Doechii Presents Lady Gaga with iHeartRadio’s Innovator Award

Doechii, Lady Gaga at the 2025 iHeartRadio Music Awards held at the Dolby Theatre on March 17, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Christoper Polk/Variety via Getty Images)

Some of the queer things that happened at this year’s iHeartRadio Music Awards include but are not limited to SZA taking home the R&B artist of the year award for the third year, Billie Eilish introducing Gracie Abrams as breakthrough artist of the year, Becky G and Victoria Monet presenting awards, with JoJo Siwa, Madison Beer, and more in the audience.

Among the gayest was when queer rapper Doechii presented Lady Gaga with the Innovator of the Year award.

Doechii said growing up, she was the queer “weird” kid and that to her younger self, Lady Gaga wasn’t just any ol’ pop star to her, she was an inspiration, and a lifeline. Doechii said, “Gaga taught us that it was okay to be our real selves, to try new things, to try anything, to speak out and to create.” She goes on to say Lady Gaga pushed boundaries and innovated out of necessity. Doechii concluded her introduction by saying, “She was born that way, and we love her for it.”

And when presenting Lady Gaga with that award, Doechii said Lady Gaga was inspiring to her as a queer “weird” kid

Gaga returned the compliment, saying Doechii is an innovator already. She also added that it feels a little weird to be getting a sort of lifetime achievement award when she’s only 38 years old. She said, “the world might consider a woman in her late 30s old for a pop star — which is insane¸— I promise that I’m just getting warmed up.” She encourages people to embrace their authenticity, and thanks her Little Monsters and the LGBTQ+ community for seeing her, supporting her, and teaching her bravery. “Your courage fuels mine every single day.”

Lady Gaga ended her speech with some advice for everyone: “The world doesn’t need another copy, it desperately needs your original.”


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+ And to leave you on some cute news: please watch this lesbian penguin named Green Bean bring her partner Randi a toy ball for their nest, set to Chappell Roan’s “The Giver”

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