Dirty talk brings up some conflicting thoughts, okay!
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Dirty talk confuses me. Actually, kink in general confuses me.
I know I'm a top and I get turned on by humiliation play because that's what I fantasize about when it's just me and my Rabbit. But when I'm with an actual woman I just... I can't dehumanize her! I can't tell her to be a B**** and take in the A** ! I respect her and even if it's "playing", well I also would mean it in that moment and that makes me feel terrible. So terrible I've never tried.
How would I even face her eyes the next morning? How can I respect a girlfriend in real life if I totally (consensually) disrespect her in bed? How do people compartmentalize this? Do they snap out of it after their hormones calm down? ...