Welcome to the 88th edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We do this column TWICE a month.
Every other A+ Advice box of the month is themed! We're following up the HOTBOX with the theme...SEX AND DESIRE. Technically it's the second time we've had a sex-themed advice box, but the last one published in May 2022 and I have to imagine ...
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