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Yes, you can finger someone with long nails (just make sure to wash your hands if you’re not wearing gloves):
“The professionals like to use a combination of gloves and cotton balls for a poke-free and painless fingering experience. Basically, the finger-er dons gloves (fancy latex gloves or even the common latex or nitrile ones you can buy at any drug store) and places cotton balls in the tips of the gloves to act as a buffer between their nails and your hole(s).
Both Harris and Cooper co-sign the glove-and-cotton-ball technique, and Harris goes so far as to consider gloves a requirement for penetration — again, nails can be rife with bacteria.”
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Healing from past relationships involves reflecting on your patterns and the patterns in your past relationships so you can learn and grow and also stop repeating them:
“Perpetual problems center on either fundamental differences in your personalities or your lifestyle needs, whereas perpetual gridlocked issues have been left unhandled and have calcified, leading to tension and quarrels. The issues are based on differences in how you view handling money, disciplining children, cleanliness, etc.
These are the problems that a couple will return to over and over. […] Be willing to consider: What were your perpetual problems? Were any of them gridlocked? Think about your need within that issue, and what might you need on that issue in future relationships.”