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Welcome to NSFW Sunday! Breathe.
Sex in public is illegal, fun, and requires not getting caught (a little bit because it’s illegal and a little bit because having others witness your sexual activity without their consent is not okay). But you can totally have sex in public without getting caught, even without a sex club:
“If sex clubs aren’t really your bag, think carefully about where you choose to have sex. ‘Don’t have sex in public where you could be seen by children or a family, as this is a good way to get arrested,’ Bisbey explains. If you’re in the mood to get amorous in a restaurant or bar, ensure you have an exit plan: a window you can climb out of, or a back entrance you can use, should management come knocking. Be aware of your surroundings: Having no idea what’s going on around you generally is an unwise and unsafe move.”
Speaking of restaurant bathroom sex, at Sugarbutch, R. Magdalen wrote some stone femme erotica about just that:
“I felt around for their belt buckle, and when I hesitated, they unbuckled it for me and opened their jeans. I pulled their pants and boxers down a bit, just to their thighs. The angle would be … suboptimal … but enough. I knelt down in front of them, the threads of my fishnets pressed into my knees, the floor dirty. I inhaled their cunt for a moment before giving the small mound the same as I’d given their tits, biting and teasing and kissing, covering it with attention before I worked my way to their slit. I wouldn’t be able to fuck them this way, but I took a long, delightful taste, pushing my tongue between their lips to find the wetness and the familiar flavors I loved. I reached their clit and a small wave washed over both of us. For a time, I just moved my head back and forth, my tongue rubbing their clit. When I felt their knees get a little bit weak, I jerked away and stood up.”
And also at Sugarbutch, Sinclair wrote about ways to practice kinky protocols in situations where you don’t want to be obviously kinky, like at holiday parties or visiting family. Agree on tasks ahead of time, pay attention to eye contact with each other, or give vanilla terms of affection kinky meanings.
Here’s how breasts change during sex:
“For a start, you may already have noticed short-term changes in your breast size and appearance during and after sex. ‘Having sex temporarily alters the shape and appearance of your breasts due to changes in blood circulation,’ explains Dr. Judith Holmes of Spire Parkway Hospital. ‘The breasts may look and feel fuller and more pert, and the veins may become more easily visible through the skin surface.'”
<3 STONE FEMME EROTICA <3
The two Sugarbutch links are so, so good.