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+ It’s okay to have loud sex:

“Because if adults can’t have noisy sex in their own homes, with the doors and windows shut, then where can noisy sex occur? Galanes and Yoffe both recommend the sex-havers simply cease to be noisy — but this strikes me as a horrible injustice. The whole point of being a wage-earning, home-owning (or -renting) adult is that you can do whatever you want to do in the privacy of your home. And noisy sex is fun. You don’t make noise unless you are enjoying sex, and since the creation of an enjoyable sex act can be a delicately balanced thing, impeding on any component — sonic or otherwise — risks ruining the enjoyability. What’s more, making noise is itself a primal pleasure. This is not to say quiet sex is not fun. Merely that, of the many types of sex a human can have, “noisy” is a legitimate and useful variety to have in your repertoire. Noisy sex may not be appropriate every time — perhaps you are saving your vocal chords for an upcoming operetta — but it is a reasonable and relatively harmless enhancement.”

via pinktacolovers

+ At Oh Joy Sex Toy, Erika Moen has some advice for long-distance relationships. (So does Carmen.)

+ Some of the worst love or sex or relationship advice it is possible to give/receive includes “moving in together will solve all your problems” and “try withholding sex.”

via models of color

+ University sex weeks are are now a thing.

+ Women over 70 are having really good sex.

Naa Larley via fuckyeahdarkgirls.tumblr.com

+ People who watch more porn are also people who have more sex, according to a new survey:

“The survey of over 1,000 Americans 18 and up found that 90 percent of men and 60 percent of women watch porn. But, resoundingly, those who admitted to watching porn always corresponded with those who had the most partners or were the most sexually active in the last year. Despite preconceptions, porn watchers aren’t fapping losers in the their basement dungeons, and in fact, their appetite for porn is indicative of a sexually exploratory and open nature. All that furious masturbating has simply been a primer course.”

via butchlife

+ Kisses look scary when you put a camera inside of your mouth during one.

+ If you need sex-related Valentine’s Day gift ideas, here are 30 of them.

via lovely and brown

+ Surrealist painter Gesine Marwedele uses people as canvases and it’s beautiful.

+ Everyone is shallow, so having a hot profile photo remains a better predictor of success in online dating than profile content is (though mentioning yoga, surfing, the ocean or Radiohead are alleged wins):

“Photographs are the most honest part of anyone’s profile. They don’t just give us the opportunity to check out the faces and bodies of our prospective matches – we can spy on their surroundings too. If someone claims to have travelled the world, we can check for evidence, and be suspicious when the photos they have posted all appear to have been taken in a car park in Reading. A picture of a person smiling cheerfully on a day out is always going to win out over a perfectly posed professional shot in which the subject looks smug.”

via curvy is the new black

+ The Carma Sutra: a 82-page manual for car sex enthusiasts.

+ When lonely twitter sexbots find love.

via models of color

+ Here is some math related to happy relationships.

+ The Daily Mail has your weekly study saying sex is good for you because why not.

Sierra McKenzie via pretty plus size

+ Best Lesbian Erotica 2014, edited by Kathleen Warnock, features bathroom sex, a Catholic school field hockey orgy, orgasms in an MRI machine, bloodily and more. From “A Good Workout,” by Sinclair Sexsmith:

“You are on the edge of your seat; I easily grab your waist and flip you around, your ass against me, my arms around you, one hand pushed between your legs and the other twisting those pink nipples. As my fingers find you wet and open you bring up my other hand to your mouth and suck two of them down, tongue swollen, lips wet. I keep my grip around you as I plunge two fingers inside you deep and you groan again, that same instinct to buckle and pulse overtaking you. I pull my fingers out slick with your juices and find your clit.”

via India Lane

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