I Forgive Myself for My Past Situationships and I’ma Keep Having Them
I’ve known for a long time that my mom’s lack of emotional availability was a setup for my romantic relationships.
Are You a Two Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?
At the end of the day, being a “two fingers” or a “thumb” lesbian isn’t just about physical technique; it’s about preference, pleasure, and the way you connect with your partner.
‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud Afraid of Doing It Wrong’
“Honestly I know I’m straight up lesbian ( stud ) and I’ve been in a few relationships with girls and I always ended it when things were about to get sexually heated.”
‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’
“We still kiss, cuddle, and go on dates, but that’s as intimate as it gets.”
‘Is It a Good Idea To Date a Girl With Internalized Homophobia?’
“She said that we couldn’t date properly because we were both girls because of our religion.”
How To Create the Ultimate Solo BDSM Experience
This is about savouring every moment, every sensation, and indulging yourself in a deeply intimate and fulfilling solo BDSM journey, which yes is totally achievable and can be a way to explore new interests or kinks even if you don’t have a partner to play with.
‘How Can I Be a Good Girlfriend When My Partner Is Extremely Anxious About Sex’
“I feel like we intuitively understand each other and our needs in a lot of matters and are willing to figure it out when intuition isn’t enough. One area that we have not been able to find understanding around is physical intimacy.”
How To Last Longer When Eating Someone Out
There’s one trick that can help you mitigate jaw and tongue tension when going down.
‘I Just Realized I’m Bi and Am Extremely Anxious’
I’ve flirted with women at bars, online, and have even had a few steamy make-out sessions, but I’m extremely anxious about taking it any further.
‘Is It Okay if I Stay in Love With My Best Friend?’
“We’re not going to get together for a lot of reasons — I don’t really have time for a new partner, they’re monogamous and I am not, and they’re just not into me in the same way that I’m into them.”
‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’
“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”
‘I Want To Support My Partner Who Is Starting HRT’
“I know there will be need to be a lot of conversations about what they’re feeling and conversations specific to how I can support them.”
‘Every Time I Go Down on My Partner, I Get the Nastiest Acne of My Entire Life’
I haven’t struggled with acne almost at all in my lifetime, but after eating my partner out, I break out with a “beard” of zits that lasts all week.
‘I Want To Call My Partner Mommy’
“The issue for me right now is talking about it!”
‘I Want To Sext a Stranger for Self-Discovery’
“Last year, in my 30s, I started a self-discovery process that has included getting on dating apps after not dating since I was a teenager.”
10 Questions for Couples To Ask Each Other Before Moving in Together
Asking each other these 10 questions can set you up for a smoother move-in and create ongoing conversations about your needs and expectations for living together.
‘I Love My Girlfriend but Sometimes She Annoys Me’
“I feel bad because obviously she’s texting me because she wants to talk to me, but I don’t like texting and I don’t want to constantly have such empty conversations.”
American Highway Infrastructure Is Evil and Other Lessons From My Long Distance Lesbian Relationship
Also: Podcasts are extinct — just call your yappy girlfriend!
‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’
Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?
14 Queer People Share Their Favorite Dating Apps and Sites of All Time
For pretty much as long as the internet has existed, queers have used it to find each other. We were online dating before it was the norm.