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100 LGBTQ+ Owned Businesses and Queer Shops To Support This Holiday Season!

With so many LGBTQ+ owned shops out there it’s gonna be a joy to put money back into your community this holiday season!

Riese 16 hours ago 77 Comments
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Here’s what the writers, editors, and other creatives behind Autostraddle and For Them want this holiday season!

the team November 26, 2025 4 Comments
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Christmas First Person Movie Features

Why I Rewatch ‘The Family Stone’ Every Year

The Family Stone is many queer folks’ first introduction to warm, unconditional familial love.

Reed November 26, 2025 3 Comments
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Buy From Native Makers and Artists This Holiday Season

Whether you’re a holigay or a Grinch like myself, I hope the curated list below inspires you to think about the land in which we’re occupying, Indigenous sovereignty, and, as always, how to be more thoughtful towards each other.

Autumn Fourkiller November 24, 2025 4 Comments
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She Thinks We Should Leave Brooklyn for Our Kids

Will their kids be happier in the suburbs than in Brooklyn? Also, trying to keep up with a financially literate partner.

the team November 21, 2025 7 Comments
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17 Sapphic Holiday Romances To Devour This Winter

These stories make you want to curl up on the couch in a thick sweater with a mug of your favorite hot chocolate while sitting next to your twinkling Christmas tree.

Sa'iyda Shabazz November 19, 2025 11 Comments
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Christmas Movie Lists

54 Christmas Movies With Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer or Trans Characters

In a world once lacking Christmas movies with lesbian, bisexual, queer women and non-binary characters, the tides of the North Pole are shifting, and we’ve got a great list of LGBTQ+ Christmas movies for you!

Riese and The TV Team
November 18, 2025 48 Comments
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Quizzes Thanksgiving

Quiz: Which Lesbian Rant Are You About To Go On at Family Thanksgiving?

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time for food, family, gratitude, and going on a timely and urgent rant at the dinner table.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya November 16, 2025 5 Comments
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the team November 7, 2025 4 Comments
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AF+ Parenting & Family

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You were ok with your girlfriend’s disinterest in parenting — until your ex-wife remarried. Also, a reader needing tips on quitting weed.

the team October 31, 2025 2 Comments
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Halloween

Why Halloween Feels Great to My Queer, Neurodivergent Brain

Growing up, Halloween was strictly off-limits.

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I, like a lot of trans guys, wasn’t sure if I wanted a penis. 

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Halloween

Last Minute Halloween Costumes for Transmascs

Maybe you were scheduled for a barshift Halloweekend so you didn’t bother putting anything together and at the last minute got off. Or your situationship ended abruptly and now your couple’s costume is useless without your second half. We’ve got you covered.

Reed October 24, 2025 9 Comments
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Halloween

Slightly Unhinged but Mostly Realistic Costume Ideas for Two Moms With Kids

Are you a queer family still deciding on the best Halloween costume for yourself, your partner and your adorable child (or children!)? We’re here to help.

Riese October 23, 2025 9 Comments
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Your friend isn’t in control of his illnesses and shouldn’t have to hold back his anxieties to make other people feel better.

Summer Tao October 21, 2025 4 Comments
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Halloween

Motti Rates His Past Halloween Costumes

I dressed so frequently as men/male characters far before realizing I was trans.

Reed October 9, 2025 4 Comments
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Halloween Quizzes

14 Halloween Quizzes You Could Take Right Now for a Very Gay October

What’s your fate in a zombie movie? What horror movie stock character are you? There are so many questions, and their accordant answers, right in here.

Riese October 8, 2025 2 Comments
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Halloween

30 Lesbian Halloween Couples Costume Ideas

From classics like Daphne/Velma to recent pop culture pairings to conceptual ideas, we’re here to help brainstorm your best queer couples costumes ever.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 4, 2025 23 Comments
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Halloween

21 Couples Halloween Costumes For Tall and Short Couples

Halloween costume time is the best time of year to tower over your girlfriend or best friend or partner (or vice versa).

Riese October 2, 2025 62 Comments
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