Are You a Two Fingers or a Thumb Lesbian?
At the end of the day, being a “two fingers” or a “thumb” lesbian isn’t just about physical technique; it’s about preference, pleasure, and the way you connect with your partner.
‘I’m a Sexually Inexperienced Stud Afraid of Doing It Wrong’
“Honestly I know I’m straight up lesbian ( stud ) and I’ve been in a few relationships with girls and I always ended it when things were about to get sexually heated.”
‘My Wife and I Haven’t Had Sex in Almost Two Years’
“We still kiss, cuddle, and go on dates, but that’s as intimate as it gets.”
How To Create the Ultimate Solo BDSM Experience
This is about savouring every moment, every sensation, and indulging yourself in a deeply intimate and fulfilling solo BDSM journey, which yes is totally achievable and can be a way to explore new interests or kinks even if you don’t have a partner to play with.
How To Last Longer When Eating Someone Out
There’s one trick that can help you mitigate jaw and tongue tension when going down.
‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’
“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”
‘Every Time I Go Down on My Partner, I Get the Nastiest Acne of My Entire Life’
I haven’t struggled with acne almost at all in my lifetime, but after eating my partner out, I break out with a “beard” of zits that lasts all week.
‘I Want To Call My Partner Mommy’
“The issue for me right now is talking about it!”
‘It’s Not Lesbian Bed Death but Something Like It’
“I don’t want to be like “let’s spice things up!” because for some reason that framing feels so idk…straight? to me.”
I Asked the Women Who Follow Me on Instagram if They’d Like To Receive Nudes. Here’s What Happened
This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection.
How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’
Like all sex acts, masturbation isn’t just about sex.
‘I Only Want To Top During Sex and My Partner Is Taking It Personally’
“I recently mentioned to my partner that I want to have a (temporary) break from receiving during sex in order to give myself space to be with my body fully, which didn’t go over terribly well.”
25 Streaming Movies With Hot Lesbian Sex Scenes
Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”
I’ve Changed, But My Kinks Haven’t
It’s okay to live a life where your interests overlap with the result of trauma.
Sensory Deprivation BDSM for Beginners
Adding sensory play to your repertoire opens a landscape of activities that combine seamlessly with everything already present.
I Immediately Feel Shame, Sadness After Masturbating
It’s 2024, am I the only one left on the planet who feels enormous shame after self-pleasure?
How To Improve a Queer Sex Marathon
Have we given thought to making marathon sex more comfortable? I love a spontaneous romp, but a few basic preparations can go a long way.
How To Kill Lesbian Bed Death
Read stories from other folks experiencing periods of no sex in relationships to start killing lesbian bed death at the root.
How Do I Approach Sex With My Partner of Six Years While We’re Both Navigating Trauma?
The lack of sex that resulted from our wildly differing needs has had a lasting impact.
You Need Help: How Do I Get More Comfortable With Dirty Talk?
We learn so much about how people act during sex from TV and movies, and those people always seem to know exactly when to moan or how to say the right thing during sex. Of course they do — it’s been written for them!